- S. Rose
- Lyndonville, Vermont, United States
- Hi there and welcome to my blog. I am a married 60 year old woman who still has the mind of a twenty year old. I have three children and two grandsons. I've been to hell and back each time stronger than the time before. If I can help you then it was all worth it.
Monday, September 30, 2019
Red Flags & Regrets #Child Abuse#Domestic Abuse#Regrets
A Red Flag (idiom), a metaphor for something signaling a problem. I was sitting here going through my Instagram which I never do posting what was most prevalent to me. Which got me thinking about how I grew up. The abusive men involved. I mean what do you do first off as a mother? Or a wife and mother? In my early childhood the most important man in my life, my father, showed his private part to me, masturbating. Later on, I figured out this wasn't a normal action a father would do with his daughter. It was our secret. He was my father. Should my mother have kept me from being alone with him? What if I had told her what had happened. My father would have been furious with me denying it? Would my mother have believed me, blamed me? My mother as far as I know for she has passed this life, will never know for I never told her. What if she had believed me? What path would that truth have taken us? No more yelling, screaming, fighting in my daily life? Or would my life had taken a worse turn? After that action my father did in front of me he never ever did anything like that again. Puzzling. When I had children of my own I tried to shield my daughter and son from the perverts of the world. I found out later that a friend's son had played "doctor" with my daughter when she was four or five. Should you never have mixed-gender sleepovers? There really is no answer to this problem unless you never ever give an opportunity of abuse keeping your child shielded at home. I wrote a post here #Papa#Don't#Touch earlier.
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Hi there and welcome to my blog. I am a married 60 year old woman who still has the mind of a twenty year old. I have three children and two grandsons. I've been to hell and back each time stronger than the time before. If I can help you then it was all worth it.